Monday, April 11, 2011

Farewell

"Thou hast turned for me my mourning into dancing: thou hast put off my sackcloth, and girded me with gladness; To the end that my glory may sing praise to thee, and not be silent . O LORD my God, I will give thanks unto thee forever." Psalm 30


This blog started with the 30th Psalm and shall end with the same. I believe it reflects completely the thoughts of Cindy and the Simpson family. Cindy did not live this life in sadness nor did she want to leave it that way. She wanted a celebration. On Sunday afternoon, Floyd and the kids were gathered in the master bedroom. On the floor, near the bed was a game board and the "kids" sat cross legged, each taking their turn as they played the game of LIFE. Her passing, I imagine, was made a little easier as she left hearing the laughter and sound of the voices of those she loved most

Cindy crossed over with little regret. She lived a good life. She believed and loved, served and accepted people openly and lovingly. A task assumed was performed with energy, enthusiasm, integrity and commitment. We who knew her well understood that her irresistible smile and gentle nature were no indication that she was a push-over. Her tenacity and strong will kept her with us for many more good years than some would have predicted. Only her firm faith in God would over ride her desire to remain here with her family.

Earlier this week a dear friend and neighbor crossed the street to Simpsons house and sat at Cindys bedside. Though Cindy was unable to speak at that time, a brief expression of understanding crossed over her face when this friend said, I am here to be visit taught. For years Cindy had been a Visiting Teacher to this dear friend, and knowing that she would not want to leave this undone, she put herself in the place to one last time feel Cindys warm spirit. Sometimes the spirit speaks clearly with no words. As she rose to leave her sister in the gospel promised she would report that her visit for this month was complete. While there are events coming one after the other that Cindy did not want to miss, Floyd put it best when he said "Mom is now going to be everywhere. Motivating us all".

Cynthia J. Simpson

06/28/1959 -04/10/2011

After a seventeen year battle with Breast Cancer, Cynthia Jane Simpson died April 10, 2011 in her home in Farmington, UT surrounded by her family. She is survived by her husband, Floyd James Simpson and her Children: Joshua Curtis and Tori Emily Simpson, Sierra and Roy Charles Shuldberg, Arielle Simpson and Benjamin Keith Simpson. She is also survived by her parents, Roland E. and Margaret Curtis and two sisters, Anne Curtis and Virginia Curtis.

Cindy was born in the pink military hospital in Honolulu, Hawaii on June 28, 1959, and because she was part of a military family, she spent her younger years following her father around the world to places like Paris, France; Stuttgart, Germany; and Panama City, Panama. She often shared her childhood memories of these exotic places with her children. It was during these younger years that Cindy was introduced to dancing when her parents began round dancing. Dancing became one of the great loves of her life.

She went on to become a member of the Rick’s College Ballroom and Folkdance teams and was able to tour with them around the country. She then went on to Brigham Young University in Provo, Utah and danced on their International Folkdance team and toured places like Russia, Hungary, and Romania. After graduating from BYU with her Bachelor's degree, she moved to Ogden, Utah and was the selected as one of the student directors of the Ogden LDS Institute Folkdancers. It was in this group that she met and married her favorite dance partner, Floyd. Together they danced around the world in beautiful countries including Austria, Switzerland, and China. Cindy also shared her love of dance with children by teaching several younger dance groups in Utah and California and started her own team called Smokey Mountain Cloggers.

Cindy always had a contagious love for life and service. Her husband and children share fond memories of countless family service projects for those she found needing help. She loved spending time with youth, in particular young women. Her husband cannot recall a year during their marriage that she missed going to Girl’s Camp with the young women of the LDS church. She loved the values taught there. Her love for youth extended to Davis High School Marching Band where she was a devoted "Band Mom" for 4 years. All who met her felt of her love and passion for life. There was never a time when Cindy was not smiling. One of her greatest accomplishments in life was her ability to make anyone smile, no matter the circumstance, and never missing the opportunity to do so.

“When you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance.“ Lee Ann Womack I Hope You Dance

Funeral and Viewing Information:

Viewing will be held on Thursday April 14th from 6pm to 8pm at the Russon Brothers Funeral Home
1941 North Main St. Farmington Utah 84025

Funeral Service will be held Friday April 15th at 11am at LDS Stake Center 729 West Shepard Lane, Farmington Utah 84025
There will be a Friday Morning viewing from 9:30am-10:30am at the stake center.

All Are Welcome.

2 comments:

  1. Again, a beautiful post. Cindy won every battle she ever fought...her leaving us was not a loss, but a triumph in loving and living life to the fullest. She inspires me and will keep on doing so for I know she is still loving, living, working, fighting for those she loves.

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  2. Cindy, I know you are aware of our words and actions here in mortality, because we've been assured that the veil is thin, particulary from your view in Paradise. So, I leave these words for you to read when you stop to rest for a few minutes (I have no doubt that you are already busily helping and blessing others in your new home): Thank you for a treasured twenty-nine years of friendship. I am grateful that our friendship is the forever kind so that we can pick up right where we left off when our Heavenly Father called you home from your mortal mission, which mission you accomplished with such courage, grace, joy and excellence. You left this world a more beautiful place, just by your being in it. I'll miss you, I already do, but I KNOW I will see & be with you again. I love you! Always & Forever, Carolyn

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